It’s the age old question, when is the best time to call someone after a first day?
Many people think that calling the next day to tell the person what a great time you had and to try to set up the next date is the best way to go.
Others think that calling the next day shows this person that you really, really want them and/or that you are desperate, either of which is looked upon in a negative light.
If you choose to call the following day and tell the person what a fantastic time you had and that you would love to see them again and they shoot you down, would have waiting a few days have really made a difference?
And what if you wait a few days to call him/her and by then he/she has met someone else and is no longer interested in you?
Either way, wouldn’t it just be easier to call the person the following day, even if that immediately finding out that they never want to see you again?
After all, I think if the person really likes you and wants to get to know you better, they will say yes to that second date, regardless of how much time has passed.
What do you think?
Do you wait a few days to call someone after a first day? Or do call right away to tell them what a great time you had?
Whatever your answer is, what is the reason for your answer?